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Woman explains why her boyfriend encourages her to 'cheat' on him and befriends all her lovers
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A model has opened up about her unconventional relationship, explaining how her boyfriend actively encourages her to sleep with other men, and even enjoys meeting them.
Jade Vow says this dynamic has strengthened her long-term relationship with her partner Josh, taking it “to the next level.”
The 27-year-old, who has been with him for eight years, believes that bringing other men into their sex life has actually made their bond stronger, adding that even feelings like jealousy can play a positive role.
Jade vows to stay committed to her partner
Despite this, Jade stresses that their relationship isn’t open in the traditional sense, as they remain emotionally committed to each other. The couple even browses dating apps together to find partners.
“The idea of non-monogamy intrigued me immediately because I've always been a very sexual person,” she explained.
“We’re not open, emotionally we’re completely closed off – when I get with other men it’s mainly for my boyfriend. It’s exciting, he likes that I enjoy myself and I enjoy knowing he loves it.”
When they first got together, Jade learned that Josh had previously been involved in threesomes, a concept she initially rejected.
She recalled: “I remember sending him an angry text saying ‘just so you know I'm never doing this, that's disgusting.’
"I totally thought that the only reason a man would want to have a threesome is so that he could be with other girls. I thought it was just an excuse.”
However, Josh didn’t pressure her, which made her rethink things.
He later explained that what appealed to him most was seeing his partner enjoy herself.
“I've always been a little bit into it from a young age,” he said.
“At 19 I started having thoughts of my girlfriend with another guy and that's just what turns me on. It was one of my kinks which we now both love.”
The turning point for their polygamous set-up
Jade admitted the idea still felt unfamiliar until she eventually decided to meet someone from Tinder.
"My exes were always very jealous people, so this was never on the table. Honestly, I barely knew that sort of thing existed,” she said.
“I was scrolling through Tinder one day and I matched with this guy… I'd had a glass of wine, so I was feeling confident.”
After meeting him at a bar, she brought him home, though the evening didn’t unfold as expected.
Instead, the three spent hours talking after Josh ran into them in the kitchen.
Later, however, things escalated when Jade walked the man back to his car.
“At the end of the evening, I walked this guy back to his car in my raincoat and wellies, looking real sexy. One thing led to another and well… we got intimate.”
Returning home, Jade initially felt guilty, worried she had crossed a line.
“It was weird explaining to my boyfriend what had just happened because I was so new to it,” she said.
“Even though I knew that he would enjoy it, I felt like I'd done something wrong. I even cried a little, thinking he’d be mad at me…
"I still couldn't believe that he was okay with it. It is so built into Western society that monogamy is the correct way, so you have to rewire your brain.”
Josh admitted he did feel a hint of jealousy at first, but it quickly turned into something positive for them.
“I was trying to get the details so that I could make it a hot thing for us… It definitely sparked some jealousy, but that jealousy quickly turned into something we both had a lot of hot fun with.”
Since then, the couple say their relationship has only grown stronger, and they’ve become more comfortable exploring this lifestyle together.
Now living in Cyprus, they’ve even turned it into a shared business venture through their OnlyFans account, where they post content for subscribers.
Jade added: “We spend literally all of our time together.
"Even before we started working together we were inseparable from day one. Eight years on and we're still that way, luckily. The only difference is that now the bedroom is a little more crowded!”